April 14, 2025

(Updated July 13, 2026)

Summary

Pros: Perfect vibration strength for panty vibe.

Magnet holds strongly in place.

Quiet when snug.

Cons: Remote light is too bright.

Only one cord, remote and vibrator need charged individually (unless you have spare magnetic charging cords that fit, which if you have a lot is entirely possible!).

Verdict: Recommended! Lovehoney's mon ami panty vibrator is great for private or public use with a perfect teasing intensity and a strong holding magnet.

Specifications

Dimensions: Length of 3.5" (panty vibrator)

Battery: Up to 1hr runtime

Modes: 3 intensities of constant vibration then 7 patterns

Material: Silicone encased, firm body

IPX7 waterproof (submersible up to 3.3 feet depth for 30 minutes)

1-year Lovehoney product guarantee (plus Lovehoney’s 100 day pleasure guarantee)

Functionality/Fit

In a pinch, the mon ami panty vibrator can also be used as a clit vibrator held by hand. The vibrations and intensity on the sweet spots are still great, but since the whole toy vibrates/rumbles it did numb the hand after a bit when using it this way (especially on higher intensities), compared to toys meant for this that have more of a handle.

Given the magnet is small, the panty vibrator still held in place surprisingly well inside panties, even in somewhat thick cotton panties! It can be shifted out of place by intentionally pushing or pulling it, but during typical use it stayed in place for her. The magnet hold was even stronger for thinner panties, as long as the underwear material isn’t ‘slick’.

The sound level of the mon ami's vibrations is discreet (as you would want a panty vibrator to be, if using it out and about in public) IF snug against the body/clit area with tight enough underwear. However, if wearing looser fitting underwear or the vibrator is not snug enough against the body, the vibrations are audible in a quiet room without much background noise, something to keep in mind if you want it to stay discreet when not at home! But enough background noise, especially if at a bar, busy restaurant or coffee shop would mask the sound even if the vibrator is not snug. The exception is when sitting on a hard surface, if the vibrator touches the surface/chair the buzzing against the chair can be heard. Not a problem when standing/walking or sitting on cushioned surfaces.

The light on the remote control was unnecessarily bright. Having the light is useful in private to know when the remote registers a button press, like when controlling the vibrator while your partner is wearing it. But, if out and about in a more public place and a dimly lit room, the bright remote light can draw (potentially unwanted) attention when holding the remote in your hand. This can be worked around by covering the light or pressing the remote while it’s still inside your pocket, but would have been ideal if it wasn’t an issue!

The light on the panty vibrator itself blinks when the toy is on but at rest (no mode selected) then stays lit once it is on a mode. And the light on the vibrator looks a lot brighter in the picture than it actually is in real life (and since it will be covered by panties and/or more layers in use, really isn't an issue!)

Magnetic charging is always a nice aspect for rechargeable toys, as I worry the pin-type water-resistant ports will wear out over repeated plugging/unplugging. While both the remote and panty vibrator are magnetically rechargeable, only one cord is included so they need to be recharged one at a time (unless you happen to have another magnetic charging cord with similar space between the nubs). Not a huge deal, but can be a bit of an inconvenience when finding out both need recharged soon before use.

The light on the remote blinks red while charging, whereas the light on the panty vibrator stays lit blue while charging.